A Glimpse into Andrea's Angelic Healing Centre's end of life companionship and grief
Andrea's Angelic Loving Care (Angels)
Grief & Soul Midwifery/End of life companions & conditions that require extra support to deliver love, healing and care.
The photograph was taken by the family without my knowledge :) but consent was given to use on the website. (credit Beth Burnley granddaughter of Tony McCracken who now resides with his heavenly vibrational family and the angels)
They loved the ending of life they had with their Dad, Husband and Grandad. He was lucid throughout and we sang together, laughed right up until the end. An ending fitting for man full of love and integrity. Ignore the hair I was on day 5 of a vigil :)
As birth brings us into the physical world, death takes us into the spirit realms as we let go of life and leave our weary physical bodies. It is the ultimate rite of passage. Most of the time your Mum brings you into this world and she takes you out of this world into the next world. I have witnessed this more times than I care to remember. I sat with my own Dad as his Mum came for him and I lost my breath. It was so beautiful even though I felt destroyed as a daughter but the last thing I saw was my Grandma holding him and both smile at me. At 9.45pm I told him how amazingly he had done and how proud I was of him as he was preparing his soul to leave and that in just a few hours he could go (I knew what he was waiting for) and 4 hours later he shouted his Mum as she came through and took him as he joined his family. Losing my Mum her soul left 2 days before her heart stopped. No Oxygen levels and no pulse just a beating heart! but there was a reason for this and it again showed me just how amazing human will and the human body truly is! I remember saying to her "I am so jealous of you, you get to see your Mum again whilst I lose mine but go and feel the love and heal your broken heart, kiss my Dad for me but it is time to go. I am so proud of you and you did amazing" I said the prayer I use to release the soul , 5 minutes later the district nurse came in and she was gone. Her heart was broken at leaving us as was ours and her last words to me was "You don't have time to grieve, you have work to do but you have a lot of help" I wasn't brought up spiritual and if we saw mediums she wouldn't let us talk about what they said but the day I showed her something on me there was no surprise and her face spoke a thousand words why she wouldn't let us talk about it. My Mum was trying to protect me as I did them. Their protection is very much still with me as they work with the Archangels to show me all I need to see and hear in order to help people.
We work with love with your loved one to help them have the ending they want. Our loss indeed is their ancestors gain and for all the pain we are left with they come back through with big smiles and guiding us. Forever loving us.
A good death is one where fear is minimal, and a gentle passing facilitated and working with the angels we surround our friends in love. I always remember one of my clients who said to me as I walked through the door for her exit to the higher vibrational world "Oh bollocks, this is it then? don't you give me no shit about the other world and then said I've seen my Mum" I replied any fears? she said no, I'm tired it is time. She had the passing she wanted in her words "no bollocks" she received healing and we chatted up until the end and she looked as amazing at the end as she did when she turned to me when she received a terminal diagnosis. I hold a piece of every friend in my heart and often think of them with love.
A soul midwife/end of life companion knows how to comfort and help the dying person by anticipating what the person is feeling on all levels, physical, mental and spiritual, and assist them and their family to make the transition. We use techniques and tools to aid a peaceful transition but before that time we work with ‘our friend’ and their family to help with fears, we are their confidant, and we are the support for them and their family.
When I received this calling because of what was coming at no point did I think I would be doing it in quick succession as what I am doing. No one would do this work if it wasn’t from the heart chakra. All my team will be your everything through this time. I was once asked “How can you do this work?” my answer is and will always remain the same it is a honour to accompany them on their final earthly journey to let them feel love before they slip to the next world and I have spoken to an undertaker who said to me “It is the last thing I can do for them on this journey” he is absolutely right.
When someone receives a diagnosis that they did not want it is hard to know where to turn for support. Our team provide you with a key support worker who will listen, empathise, support and respect your decisions. We will work with you and your family to be your go-to on the bad days or share your joys on the good days. Even if you end up in the centre we are opening; we do hope by working alongside your medical team that you will transfer to the Healing Centre but this centre isn't about giving up! it is the contrary it is just giving you extra care and support for you and your family/friends. A place of healing energy and uplifting energy to help you in this journey.
Soul Midwife Principles
The Soul Midwife’s most important role is to provide comfort, continuous support and reassurance in helping a dying person to experience a tranquil and dignified end to life.
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- To work as non-medical holistic companions who guide and support a dying person in order to facilitate a gentle and tranquil death.
- To support and recognise the individual needs of the dying person and ensure they feel loved and supported.
- To create and hold a sacred and healing space for the dying person (whether in a hospital, a hospice or at home).
- To respect and honour a dying person’s religious/spiritual or atheist/agnostic beliefs and practices.
- To work as non-denominational, multi-faith practitioners who honour the dying person’s beliefs about life, death or the afterlife.
- To listen, provide gentle therapeutic techniques, and ensure compassionate care at all times.
- To ‘serve’ our friend; not aim to ‘fix’ or ‘rescue’.
- To give healing, using sound, touch, colour, scented oils or other gentle techniques to alleviate pain and anxiety.
- To keep a loving vigil.
- To work holistically with the spirit and soul of our friends at all levels and stages of transition.
- To support families and their loved ones during and after, giving loving care with a human touch.
- To provide comfort, continuous support and reassurance in helping a dying person to experience the death that he, or she hopes for.
A soul midwife knows that the sign you are born under is where 'our friend' will struggle and are equipped to deal with this to help them. It is our love and skills that will allow us to help the elements leave your body to give you a peaceful passing. Once those elements have left your body that is where death occurs.
We are not against medication we work alongside your health teams. We are in tune for all that you need, to support and assist you in your final journey on earth.
Grief
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Grief
Most counsellors believe the best time frame to accept a client for counselling is after 6 months. I know from experience that what we do here gives you strength, and support and allows the grieving journey to speed up. I accept clients from the beginning. It changes the journey. Most ask me "Are they okay? do they know I miss them?" The Angels and their loved ones wrap their wings around them and although we struggle through the pain it is true that our loss is their ancestor's gain as they meet with family and friends who have already slipped to the next world.
There is no time limit or the right way to grieve as you have lost an important person in your life. I will always remember a dad who lost his teenage daughter to Cancer and in the darkest moment of his life he found my door. The Angels wrapped their wings around him to support him and give him strength. He left here able to cope and get through the funeral. He asked me "Is she okay?" I asked are you ready to hear from her as this is your choice as the healing will help you and you do not need to hear any messages" he said I need to hear something. She brought humour, love, support and proof as she told me when the funeral was and what was going to happen there, but she also told him things about the ending that only he knew. He left here with strength and although he missed her terribly and still does to this day! to know she is okay makes him smile as he says her name. She is very much around him just as your loved ones are. They never leave us, but they do help us on our journey.
I only ever give messages if you ask or unless I see something that makes me NEED to tell you, there are times I see things and as soon as you leave, I get to work with the Angels to try to help the situation. I never want anyone to leave worried and I avoid that situation at all costs, but if the situation is urgent and the angels need me to work on your behalf, I do this as I work at one with the Angels. The love and support you receive from the Angelic realm will be the strongest form of healing you will ever receive. Some people do not receive messages as they feel not ready or they do not wish to have a spiritual service but they receive strength, love and healing to help them on their journey.
My work as an earth angel is also a little special with those that are sadly getting ready to take their transition. It is not always easy for someone that is coming to the end of their earth days to discuss what they want at the end or to talk about their wishes/emotions with family, so I am that person. If requested I am also present at the end to help with the transition from this world to the next.
Each session carries a lot of love from the Angels. I brought forward a new service which the person going through this journey has a choice and that choice is that they can bring in their loved ones to help give them strength but more than that when their days are done on earth their loved one can come somewhere to get love and support from someone who has shared their journey, who understands the loss. I did this because there is no after care for the relatives for those that have suffered an overwhelming loss. An example of this is a man who lost his best friend/wife to Cancer and when she died it wasn't just, he lost her but his life as the hospital visits stopped! the 24-hour care stopped and all he was left with was a bag of medication reminding him of the hectic life. The house was silent as no one called, his wife was gone and all he had left was 4 walls. He found me through another client, and he said to me "the service you offer I wish I had found this whilst she was alive, but you have said so many things that prove she is around me. I wish I had found you whilst she was alive as I know she would have loved you and you could have helped her in so many ways pain and emotionally" He found strength from here and within a short time frame he was able to move forward knowing she was helping him on this journey but he still had a life to live.
Helping people through grief is work that is highly emotional but I know the help in here beats anything out there and people leave able to talk about their loved ones without crying, strength to get you through the dark days but more than that you receive love and support. A midwife found my door after a lot of people kept begging her to see me. She left with proof that there is another world as I told her her things I cannot possibly know but she messaged me a month later and said I have not cried since I left you and I can smile when I talk about her. Your service is invaluable and I thank my Mum for guiding me to you.
A lot of counselling is based on theories from years again well our consciousness has raised, and the theories are outdated. Person Centred Counselling is still based on a theory from the 1940's and they wonder why counselling does not work! and people end up back in counselling in a cycle. I mean seriously do we still use make a memory box as the main coping mechanism? I sometimes look at counsellors and think just connect! This is a person in front of you and not just someone out of a book! In here we use skills gained from person centred counselling but it is more intuitive counselling whilst your body is activated to help you cope with the life journey and once your body is activated then counselling will not be required but a top up to keep your body and mind healthy is always recommended but some clients top up once a year or some keep it as a monthly as how you leave really is seeing is believing.
We aim to be the number one place specialising in sudden death and grieving support. We are trained in grief and a big percentage of our work is trauma work in relation to grief.
The one thing the Angels want you to remember is that you are never alone, and the Angels hold your loved ones in their wings to support them in their new life in the higher life they show them how to support and come to you when you need them. So, close your eyes and feel them with love in your heart and just watch the signs as they come around you. It may be a touch, a sense that they are there, a smell, a feather, a butterfly/robin or it may simply be words in a song you hear on the radio or in your head that has meaning. Sending love and healing to all those that need support at this time.
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